You need to take a very close look. in yourself, by being very honest, with yourself. in other for you to figure out what that will truly make you a very happy, person in your life. alternatively, no two Person, are going to have the same path to life satisfaction, in this case, for you. no matter how well-matched they are, in the universe that they are in. in this way, by doing so, you need to take a deep look into yourself, in other for you to find out what will work best for you as an individual. in this case, This Video, and article, online. will definitely help, you figure out what it is that will make you happy, and then provide some tips for how to achieve that happiness. In this video I am, going to be showing you How to know what you want in life now let’s begin.
#1. | Looking forward for you, to Evaluate your core values in life, and be sure to Avoid yourself, by relying on the material possessions.
By looking for a paper in other for you to write down the three aspects, that is in your life that are most important to you in person, and then, by looking to rank them in terms of importance. In this case, for you, for instance, do you think your family come before or after your faith in God, if on the other hand, that you believe in god? and do you think that it Is more important for you to even try to look forward to spend the time on the hobbies that will always make you feel personally happy, in life or to focus on the career that supports your family and gives them a comfortable life?
- By ranking your values and priorities, you’ll be better able to tell whether or not you’re devoting an appropriate amount of energy to each aspect of your life.
- In this case, for you in other words having amazing, “stuff” in life will makes you a lot happier, in person. however, never fool yourself, into having the thought of just having amazing things in life is always, the root of the joy for you in person. On the other hand, you may want a nice sound system in your life because you actually in love with the music, but on the other hand, by focusing on your love of music, not the sound system. Be aware that going to concerts, singing with friends, and whistling on your drive to work are all equally important elements that work with the fancy sound system to bring you joy.
#2. | Taking the right moment in other for you to Make a list of your favorite activities that you love in person.
In this case, for There are no right, and also there are no wrong answers, however, as long as you are being honest, with yourself in other for you to do what you really, want to do in life. for example, maybe traveling to another country, or a another place have actually, brings you the most joy, in person or maybe for you it’s a well-cooked meal that is amazing to you. or Maybe, it can be that you love to talk about the books, and in this case, you are someone that always practice literary criticism, in your life. or it can be that you love to be the person, that always love to spend, the time to always writing the books, down. And you are not the one that like to talking about the books to others that is around the world have written down.
- The list might evolve over time. What makes you happy at 20 might not be what makes you happy at 30. Don’t be married to an image of “who you are” — update your list over time to reflect what makes you happy in the present moment.
- Ask yourself what you want to do if money wasn’t an issue to find out what you’re truly passionate about.
#3. | Practicing some meditation whenever, you have more time alone.
Taking some alone time, to practice some Meditation can honestly, be surprisingly beneficial for you with your mental health and even your happiness, as well and also taking the time to do meditation can actually clear your mind in other for you to think more clearly in other for you to see your priorities more clearly. Even though it has religious and mystical roots, meditative techniques are very helpful, to you. however, by doing meditation can be used for anyone for relaxation and even stress relief for anyone as well.
- By Finding a tranquil an environment for you, in ways for you to free from distracting sounds and activities — someplace that you love to be, where you can actually clear your mind. And to even focus on your state of being.
- By finding a better place around a comfortable place, in other for you to Sit in a more comfortable position like the lotus position with your eyes being closed, up while you are meditating by focusing on your breathing body.
- by Inhale and exhale slowly, deeply, and purposefully.
- Focus on your breath, how it feels entering and exiting your body. Be present fully in your body in the moment, and do your best to think of nothing else.
- Do this at the same time every day to make it part of your routine. Early in the morning, before you go to work, is a good time for meditation because it calms and prepares you for the rest of your day.
#4. | Making the time to create a list of your strengths in person, or taking the time to Make a list of your passions for you.
Having The most satisfying careers that you really like to have are the ones that make you feel like the best use of your natural skills and even talents for you. furthermore, if you are someone that are a great public speaker and then, you really enjoy taking the time in other to give out the presentations, then you are squandering that talent by coding programs at a desk. Or Maybe it can be that you are someone that does combine both aptitudes to even becoming an instructor! By Being more aware of your career strengths are completely different from your skill strengths that have already makes you a happy person. And in this case, some questions that might help you suss out your strengths are:
- Do you work best alone, with a partner, or as part of a larger team?
- Do you work best when you’re assigned tasks or when you get to lead your own projects?
- In this case, not everybody that is around the universe. that will actually, want to have a career in something, that they are absolutely crazy about, in this case, most people a around the world should be able to even match up they interests and even they careers to some degree in they life.
- Alternatively, there are many tests you can take to figure out what kinds of jobs are best matched to your interests.
#5. | Visualizing your ideal schedule in how you are working.
Not everyone, or infect some people out there cannot even stand the general, idea ones it comes to working every single day at work from 9-5 in life. in an actual office setting. On the other hand, if you are someone that actually crave the flexibility in other for you to work at your own pace, during your own work hours, that you got and even, from a setting of your choosing, then in this case, maybe doing freelancing or even contract work will definitely, appeals to you. and they are Other people out there, that might not see themselves even following the constantly shifting schedule in a career as a university professor with its attendant ever-changing of focus that they are having. Instead, they have others out there. that might be gown in an environment or flourish in a setting with the stability and the sameness of a having a 9-5 workday filled with well-known, repeating duties.
- On the other hand, please take the time in other for you to Ask yourself what kind of schedule would work best with your work habits.
- And whatever, you do please. do not choose freelance work, if you are someone that slack off, and lose focus easily!
- Note that freelance and contract work is less stable than regular office work and usually does not offer benefits.
#6. | Calculating a budget that you are making from your job, or career, and Never ever be afraid of changing to a better career that you love.
You really do not need to even, choose a career only just for the money, that it has or otherwise. you may not even know if you actually love, or hate the career, at what you are doing. and also you do not even want to labor away without ever making enough money in other for you to even support yourself, and even your family. By even Calculating the budget. in whatever, it is that you are doing, in other for you to even determine how much money exactly that you actually need to have. in other for you to even maintain your family at a level of comfort that’s acceptable.
- In this case, you can Search online for an average of salaries in various career paths that you really want to do. As you are taking the time to Figure out if the career you’re thinking about will satisfy your monetary needs.
- Think about extra training (such as additional schooling) you will need in order to achieve your career goals.
- If you are someone that you feel like that you are stuck in a job, or even a career, that you do not even like, at all then, in this case, you might daydream about a career that will actually satisfies you, at all times. however, there might also be a number of things, that you will actually like. by including time, or even ego, and or fear on the other hand, about financial stability, that might even stop you in other for you to even find out a brand new career that you actually love to have and that will really satisfy you every time that you are working in an amazing working environment for you. alternatively, you need to put everything on the back burner except for your career satisfaction.
- To prepare for a career change, you should begin saving as much money as possible. A career change sometimes means you have to start your new job at a lower-paying position before you can work your way back up the ladder.
#7. | Making a list by Writing down your core values, and Write a reasonable list that your partner must-have in a trait that you love about your partner.
On the other hand, if you are looking forward to planning on always spending the rest of your life with someone, that you actually love a lot. then, you will want to find the right partner for you that will definitely shares your fundamental outlook on life. on whatever, it is that is What Are your most uncompromising, unchanging beliefs? Are about in person or as a couple in this way Some examples it might be that.
- You are someone that really want to have a big family vs. that you do not want to have kids
- You are someone that want to know How to raise children
- Or a religious belief
- Feelings about marriage and/or divorce
- Or how you or your partner approach conflicts and problem-solving.
- As you are looking for a partner. then, you are not going to find anybody that actually, matches your entire partners, wish-list perfectly, that you always love, in your partner, so that. the both of you can personally match each other similar toward what the both of you love together. and also you have to be realistic about what the most important characteristics you’re looking for are. Prioritize the things you’re looking for in a relationship and figure out what the five most important elements are. Some examples might be:
- Having a partner that have a good Sense of humor
- you are looking for someone that is Good-looking
- and a matching partner that Shares your taste in music or other including hobbies that the both of you love.
- Enjoys/avoids outdoor activities
- Financial stability.
#8. | Learning to be happy, with who you are in yourself, And Ignore the lists that you have made up if the list is not going the way that you like.
Even if you have a great a romantic partner, that you really love and you have already find out, if you have a relationship, then you will never be a happy person, in a relationship that you are having with your love one, until you can be a happy person, with yourself first. on the other hand, you will also have a better idea. of what you want and need in a partner if you’re the best version of yourself that you can possibly be, and you’re happy with it.
- Regardless, of the Thoughts that you are having, it is good to know. what you want that much with someone, that you are looking, for a in relationship, of the love of your life, that you always wish that you have. and also be sure that you never try to close yourself off to potential partners that you really love. in this case, your list do not match with your partner that you love. because you feel like they don’t fit with some preconceived idea you wrote down on a piece of paper. Admit that you’re never going to find someone who meets your entire checklist, and just be open to spending time with the people you feel a connection with.
#9. | Taking the time together, in other to Decide exactly, how large, or how small, that the both of you want your family to be.
If you and your partner are taking the time to that you do, in fact, looking towards having kids, or children, then you may think that the next step is to figure out how large that you are looking for your family to be. with more children to grow. Again, in this case, some of this is just instinct; some others out there, think, or even wish, that that they can just feel in their bones that they really want to have the time to even want to have a large family of others. However, having a large family will actually have many practical considerations you should keep in mind if you really want to have a large family.
- Having a child, or a new kid will cost about over $245,000 for each child over their 18 years of legal childhood!
- And as you are a parent that are always taking the time to take care of your children then, you will have to have the attention so you can devote to each child? On the other hand, having A single child will get as much attention as much as you can as their parents have to always offer, to the kids, or they children but with each additional child, that you are taking care of, then you will have the attention with you children as have the attention will grow more and more diffused over your growing brood. In this case, how much time that you will have to drive each child to their individual after-school when you just come from work or at home activities, help with homework, listen to them talk about their days, etc.?
- How much companionship do you want your child to have? Even if you can’t devote undivided parental attention to a child, having many siblings means your children will always have playmates to keep them occupied and to help each other through the trying emotional times when they don’t always turn to their parents.
- Remember that with your third child, you are officially outnumbered. With two children, one parent can manage each in a given situation, but with three children, there’s a spare child running loose!
#10. | Consider if you want to be a parent, that rather want to be a working, or rather to stay-at-home parent.
Alternatively, though the traditional gender roles as man, that is working. in the working environment, and a woman, that is taking the time in other to raise the children, at home, in that case, these days, both the men, and even the women, should be able to feel the equally comfortable, in either role that they are working on. toward becoming a better parent.
- Or as both of the parent, are at work, while the Childcare, or babysitter, is taking care of the children with both of the parents, are at work can actually be so expensive. on the other hand, it only depending on where exactly, the both, of you are living, in this case, that it may not be worth the income from your job that you are making in your working environment.
- On the other hand, being a parent Would be comfortable with other people around in other to be spending that much time trying to raise your children, regardless of how much you trust them?
- Do you want to be present for all of your child’s developmental milestones, and would working in an office get in the way of that?
- Would staying at home with your child all day make you feel claustrophobic, or like you’re being defined solely by your identity as a parent?
- Would staying at home keep you from the passions and interests you get to explore every day at a job you love?
#11. | Taking the time by asking yourself about what kind of parent that you would want to be.
Despite the both of you taking the time to do the research about the legion of parenting books as you are reading the parenting book witch would have you be thinking, that there are no correct or even wrong way, once it comes to being a perfect parent. After all, other parents have already take the time to take care of they children, or kids, in other to raised up the children for centuries without even reading up the guidebooks. in that case, sure. It is an important, though, that you are having in other for you to think about what kind of parent you are looking forward. in other to become. as you and even your partner Want to be happy as possible.
- In this way, by Looking into a different parenting styles as you are learning how you want to raise your family the preferable way that you and your partner like.
- In this case, if the both of you are thinking together about what kind of parent that the both, of you want to be. Like for example, do you want to be a hands-on parent who walks their children through all of their decisions and activities, or do you want to be a more laissez-faire parent who lets their children make and learn from their own mistakes?
- And another question? Would be about is. How involved do you want to be in your children education? And Will you as a parent will always take the time to check up on your children homework every night? Or being there to Assigning extra homework
- outside of class to your children? Or it can be that letting more qualified teachers handle their education to the children?
- How do you want to reprimand your children when they make mistakes? Would you feel more comfortable in a good cop or bad cop role? Another way to think of it might be, “Do you want to be more of a coach who helps make good decisions or a referee who identifies and punishes mistakes?”
- Do you put your children first before all others, or does your marriage take priority? What about your personal happiness?
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