Some or I may say other spectators, might label kids that is feeling unmotivated, lazy children. In this way, isn’t that what is laziness, if not the total loss of motivation? If so
Whenever, the children don’t lie on the bed in the room in the day and even at night as well (in which case, if that ever happen, then they might suffer depression when they feel unmotivated), in this case, their drive is still there, but it lies in a different place than you would like.
Unfortunately, there is no 100% effective way to motivate any child anytime. Still, some motivational ideas for kids work better than others and are certainly worth trying. when doing so in this video I am going to be showing you 7 ways to motivate your children when they’re totally unmotivated, now. let’s begin.
#1. | Supporting your kids, by Correcting Your Parental, Expectations to them.
Whenever, a child feels like they are lacking down or I will say lacks motivation, then it may be because your children is feeling like they are having to go through the harsh self-criticism the reason is it is because of the caused by failing to fit the parents’ high standards. In this way, as a result, the fear that the kids are having of external criticism and even devaluation prevents a child or a kid from feeling afraid to taking up any activity in they life. if on the other hand, children are starting to feel this way then, they are a solution to this problem. Here’s the solution. You can realistically assess your child’s abilities and talents and stop pushing them too hard. What motivates your child at school is focusing on those activities that bring them joy and a sense of satisfaction.
- For instance, if your kid prefers history lessons to math, promote this love and express your interest in this subject. Show them that you approve of their hobby and are ready to help or be a part of it if needed.
#2. | Planning the Ideas about the real life, for Your Kid’s in other to plan they dream the right way, that they like.
Although Most children around the world may live in a bubble where their parents supply them with shelter, and even food, together with some luxuries, in this case, it actually depends on their financial standing. In this case, they haven’t tasted the grown-up life process yet and on the other hand, they have no idea how it works quite yet. For this reason, many teenagers out there have actually grown up with a low level of responsibility I the life that there in.
- That said, as a parent you will definitely have two options with your child, in this case, you can ether shake up your child. First, whenever, your teenager ever refuses to study because they think it’s is so useless, to sturdy for an exam then, you can actually show them the truth or the reality of most people who have actually drop out of school. on the other hand, please Be very careful not to offend anyone and by the way, suggest to your child, that working long shifts on low-paid jobs is unlikely to be your child’s sacred dream of they life.
- The second step is to help your kid explore some exciting careers that they might want to pursue. Talk about their strengths and ask about their passions. Then, make a list of several areas of their interest and specify the skills they require.
- Some examples of what might motivate your child are working in the medical field, creating music, or Starting a business. It’s essential to abstain from criticism at this moment. Once your child finds an exciting future possibility, their motivation will improve dramatically.
#3. | Give a better Reward, to your Child for Doing the “Boring Stuff”.
Don’t you think, that it is amusing to hear that so many parents, have already complain about their kids not even liking to do any housework? Or house chores? Have you ever even met someone like—an adult or even a child—who enjoyed doing housework all that much? If it is yes then, it is completely Natural, for many of us to even strive to create a comfortable living conditions, that others, will be more attracted to a cleaner, environment. like a leaving area. which will automatically, or somatically, pushes us to do some washing, or even scrubbing, and in this case, including to cook as well. by Doing chores is our choice and even responsible adults where we all leave, on the other hand, it doesn’t actually work out that way with kids.
- Sometimes, the only motivation for children’s engagement in housework is a specific reward. It’s called extrinsic motivation, or the one that powers the tasks with external rewards, such as praise or money.
- However, plan what reward to present to your child for accomplishing assigned chores carefully. Make sure that it is age-appropriate. And don’t forget to mention how well they’ve done their job, even if it wasn’t exactly flawless.
#4. | Shift your Attitude, around your kids.
The more younger that your kid, are the less likely that an effort, you have to make to correct their behaviors, by having a lot more motivation, to word your children. For Example. if on the other hand, that you have imagine that you always rather want your 3-year-old to actually learn that helping around the house is a good thing to do and can even cultivate the habit of your children in the future. By even teaching your kids to learn How you can be a lot more motivated to words, your toddlers to do something?
- Kids at this age mostly watch and imitate grown-ups. Thus, you can provide a positive example to your child and show them that achieving small goals is fun.
- The key factor here is to provide the opportunity for success. For this reason, make the task small and easy-to-accomplish, so that your kid wants to repeat the success later.
5. | Be sure to Offer, Your Help to your child.
Having to deal with a previous successful level can easily become more motivated to words your child, or children, to even do well, or better in the future. Unfortunately, so many children around the world, are more intimidated, by having fear to words, something, or even, failing something in this case, your children will prefer to avoid doing some tasks to stay on the safe side, without letting the problem get to them. Now the next point is,
- What can you do? Then, allow me to demonstrate, it to you. be sure to Break down the task into having a more smaller achievable pieces, in other for you to set up a short-term goal, and even to assist your kid in accomplishing they goals while you are helping them in this case.
- Be careful not to do the work for them. If it’s a school assignment, look through books and other informational sources together. Guide them to find the solution on their own while staying at their side.
- At the same time, don’t put a time frame or say something like “You’re wasting my time” or “How many times do I have to show you this?” If they fail to achieve outstanding results, don’t let them feel your disappointment. Instead, your goal is to inspire them to learn things and enjoy the process.
#6. | Having to Praise, the Process, as Much, as the Result can even be.
While having Motivation in preschoolers, and even, elementary school kids can actually relies, that having on the external reaction, from other older adults, on How a parent can actually motivates their child, at this age can actually differs a significantly from how
- they approach the middle and even the high-schoolers. When, they are now for the first time Essential, in this case, there are three common critical mistakes you should always avoid doing and it is:
- #1. Having to demonstrate a correct, solution before a child finds it independently;
- #2. The lacking of praise to your children for trials without significant results;
- #3. failing to refuse to help your child to learn a brand new activity.
- Children need constant encouragement and do not respond well to criticism. So, instead of only praising a satisfactory result (for example, when a child completes a puzzle), say that you noticed how much effort they put into the task and that you liked their diligence.
#7. | Never Blame Your Child for having a strange personality.
In this case, Sometimes, in life no matter how many waking hours, you have spent while you are spending, a lot of your time trying your absolute hardest, into motivating your child, as much as you can in the best way, possible. your effort may have no effect on them at all,—and in this case, it is not anyone’s fault, on the other hand, It’s all about the child’s personality, which can rarely complies with our vision with the child of what you want them to be in life.
- You can struggle to motivate your son to clean his room and wash his clothes. You can plead, argue, and cajole, and maybe he will obey occasionally. But if he does not share your attitude toward cleanliness, no amount of reward, punishment, or praise will change that.
Which will bring us to the Final and last Thoughts
Having The critical factor in starting to and even completing any activity is actually motivation. Thus, its loss is detrimental to a person’s chances of accomplishing positive results. however, it’s also dynamic and can be nurtured by applying the techniques described above.
- So, keep your cool, stay patient, and try different approaches. And most importantly, surround your child with love and care, no matter how well they perform at school or behave.
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