How to respect yourself

Having to Developing a strong sense of self-respect with yourself can actually help you. in other for you to feel more fulfill with your potential, by developing a very healthy relationship, with those that is around you and can make everyone around to actually see you as a person who is worthy of having a lot more respect. In this case, if you actually or truly want to respect yourself, as much as you can then in this case, you will have to accept yourself, and then work really hard on becoming the person you always dreamed of becoming in life. as you are taking the right steps in other to know how to feel happier with who you truly are in person by making the world treat you as you deserve to be treated, then, in this video, I am going to be showing, you. How to respect yourself, now let’s begin.

#1. | Understanding yourself by Getting to know who you are.

The more that you are understanding who you are while you are learning more about yourself, in person then, the more you’ll see and even, the more you will appreciate how unique that you really are, in person and even the more that you have actually respect yourself. by simply Discovering your principle, and personality, and even your talents within yourself as well. In this case, it can take a while in other for you to complete this exciting process of self-discovery, or I may say self-discovery however, you will quickly see that what you are doing is worth it.

  • As you are Making a new list of things, people, feelings and even activities that are really important to you in person. Alternatively, this will actually help you in other for you to identify what exactly that it is you really like or I will say need in your life right away.
  • By even Trying out different task of activities. While This will definitely give you a chance to see what you like and what you don’t like.
  • Try writing in a journal. Pretend that you’re having a conversation with your 99-year-old self and you’re asking for advice on what to focus on in your life. You can also start with the writing prompt, “What do I want to avoid writing about?” This will start an honest conversation with yourself.
  • Spend time with yourself by pretending you’re dating yourself. Try out a new restaurant that’s exactly what you’d like to do. This will give you a chance to connect with your own feelings and opinions.

#2. | Be sure to Always Forgive yourself, if you are not happy about yourself, and try your best to always Accept yourself.

Do you want to respect yourself? if it is yes, then, you may want to respect yourself, as much as you can by being able to forgive yourself very deeply about yourself as much as you can for the horrible things you’ve really done in the past of your life that you are not very proud of what you, do in the past that you never like. By even Admitting that what you have already did that was really wrong, by apologizing to others if necessary, and then, work to words moving forwards in other to become a better person in your life. If on the other hand, that you are getting really hard on yourself for making a very bad decision that is really wrong that you hate and it affect you witch have actually causes you to say something extremely hurtful, to yourself, then you’ll never be able to move on. In your life by Knowing that you are a human Bing and not a robot. Also People have already make mistakes. Whenever you are Making mistakes then, in this way we always learn. by always accepting them and forgive yourself more by.

  • Being comfortable in your own skin, learning to love and accept the person that you are. This doesn’t mean you have to think that you’re perfect, but you have to learn to embrace yourself. Be happy with all of the things you love about yourself, and be okay with the parts of you that are less-than-perfect, especially the ones you can’t change.
  • Stop saying you’ll love yourself if only you lost twenty pounds, and start loving the person you are right here, right now.

#3. | Working on building and improving up your confidence.

By Achieving self-respect in yourself is a very difficult thing to do if you are not happy at all especially with who you are in person, or with how you actually look, or what you’re doing in life. by Building up your true confidence when you are taking a lot of work, but doing a very few simple things with yourself every single day of your life can definitely start you on your ways.

  • By Starting to maintaining positive body language and good posture, smiling more, and thinking at least three good thoughts about yourself each hour.
  • If someone compliments you, accept their statement by saying, “Thank you.”

#4. | Always maintain having a positive attitude in everything.

Having a good positive attitude can make or break your successful characteristics in your life, together with your thoughts about who you truly are in person. In this case, even if the things are not going the way that you wish, then, you should be confident about the fact that something is good or positive that is about to happen to you eventually. By Being pleased with your everyday life and all what it can offer you in person. On the other hand, if you start to feel overly negative about everything in life and you also start to think by only imagine the very worst in every situation, then you are then, the highly likely that you are bound to never feel very good about who you are in person or to give yourself the respect that you always wish deserve.

  • For instance, if on the other hand, you applied to a job you really want, don’t say, “There’s no chance I’ll get it. There are so many more qualified applicants.” Instead, say, “It would be so exciting to get that job. Even if I don’t get asked for an interview, I’m still proud of myself for applying.”

#5. | You do not have to keep up with everyone, you know and please Cast aside your envy.

One of the reasons why you are lacking down self-respect it is because you are feeling really bad about that you are single person without having a boyfriend, or a girlfriend, while all of your friends are engaged, and already have a partner, or that you feel inadequate that you don’t make as much money in your working environment as other people you know that working in a high paying job at they work place. Alternatively, by Maintaining your very own standards and by working towards achieving the goals that you love to have or want to achieve in life. in this case, do not ever waste your time doing what you think that will impress your Facebook or even your tiktok friends on the social media or give you bragging rights. And also it is better and impressive for you to succeed at doing what you love or want to do instead of following the path that everyone else has taken.

  • Stop wishing you had what others have and work on achieving what you really want. The feelings of bitterness and resentment that come along with jealousy will only make you dislike yourself and wish you were someone else. Cast aside envy and work on what will make you happy.

#6. | Always believe in the choices, that you have make.

If you really want or even love to always have respect to yourself, then, you have to be willing to always believe in your decisions you are making witch, have already made up. You have to be more firm in your beliefs that you have about anything and then, try to make an effort to understand yourself, very well and also to even to be more aware of what will actually make you more of a happy person. By always Giving yourself the reward of a decision that is well-made be sure to stick to it, as much as you can no matter how difficult it may be to you as you are working to words it.

  • In this case, it is okay to ask other people for advice, and this can actually help you gain a more balanced perspective, but you shouldn’t spend your time doubting yourself, thinking that what you’ve done is all wrong, and wishing that you had done something else.

#7. | Learning to handle criticism, from others as much as you can.

In other for you to truly have a lot more self-respect, in yourself then, you definitely have to understand the person of your characteristics that you really are in. in person, If someone on the other hand, have given you helpful and constructive factual, feedback, about you or about the way you have poorly handle the situation then, you need to evaluate what the other person is telling you. In this way, you may want to be able to use they feedback on yourself in other for you to use it as a way to improve yourself. On the other hand, Constructive Criticism from other people can actually help you in other for you to achieve your goal of being a better person in life even on what you are doing in person.

  • For example, your girlfriend or your boyfriend will say, that you could have been a well better listener that always listen to them when he or she really needed you very badly with a big problem, or your boss might even say to you that you could have write the reports more carefully,
  • If someone is being mean or trying to hurt you, then throw that feedback out the window. Sometimes it can be hard to tell the difference between someone who tells you something that is true in a harsh way and someone who tells you something mean in a “nice” way. Evaluate this criticism honestly and carefully.

#8. | Don’t let others get in your thoughts about who you are.

Though it may sound impossible, for you to deal with in your sense of self-worth and including your happiness, as well should come to words yourself, not from the people that is around you. In this case, for you Sure, some people will compliment you or even your rewards about what that can actually make you feel like a better, person in life however, at the end of the day, your happiness and even your self-satisfaction has to come from within you as you improve yourself. in this case, do not let other people tell you who you are, and even when they make you feel like a small, person or by even making you question your beliefs. On the other hand, if you are looking forwards to respect yourself, then you must trust that you’ve made the right decisions, in your life by learning to let the haters hate even if they do not like you or your ways.

  • If you’re always letting people change your mind or make you rethink your decisions, then people will think that you don’t have strong convictions. Once you find things you really believe in, it’ll be harder to let all of the negative people in your life really get to you.

#9. | Respecting yourself by treating yourself better.

When was the last time when We often do things to ourselves that we would never dream of doing something to someone that you really care about if you never then, allow me to demonstrate what I am saying to you. For example, when it is the last time you called your best friend that you really care and love that they are a very ugly, person or by telling them that they weren’t good enough, or trying to discouraged them from following their dreams? On what they want to be in life in other words what I am saying is Whatever you believe to be respect, then try your best to apply it to yourself. and Do not insult or harm yourself, when you do not feel good about yourself no matter how bad you feel. Then This kind of treatment to yourself, is only bound to make you feel worse. About who you are in this case, here are some other ways to treat yourself with the basic respect:

  • Don’t steal from yourself, such as recklessly putting everything on credit; you’re essentially taking money from your future self, because you’ll have to pay up eventually.
  • Be honest with yourself instead of being in denial about what you really want.
  • Think for yourself by developing your own sources of knowledge and doing research, instead of just following the opinions of others.

#10. | Taking care of yourself by respecting your body.

By make an effort towards keeping your body in good working condition, in this case, not only that you will feel incredibly better physically, but you’ll also feel a great sense of pride in yourself. by Respecting yourself in every way that you love and also it actually means not insulting yourself for what you really are, naturally by. Making yourself an effort to get fit and stay healthy, in the body that you love on the other hand, please do not try to trash yourself over any things that you really have no control over, like your proportions. Please try your best to Focus on the things you can change and then try to improve, yourself and do it because you feel really good, not because you think you’re not “good enough” the way you are.

  • This doesn’t mean that going to the gym and looking amazing will automatically lead you to have high self-respect. But it does mean that if you don’t put any time or care into your appearance, that you’ll start to lose respect for who you are.

#11. | Targeting the areas about yourself, that you want to improve on.

Whenever, you are looking, towards Respecting yourself then, it does not really mean that you need to always think what you need to think about that you need to be a perfect person. and then you start to feel that there is absolutely nothing around the world that you need to work on in person and by improving yourself. actually means being able to accept anything that you cannot change about yourself, in person while you are working towards addressing the things that you truly need to work on in other for you to improve yourself then you need to. Take some time to really reflect deeply about yourself by thinking about yourself and then, to actually understand the areas you’d like to work on really bad about yourself as much as you can, or maybe you need to think about the things that you would like to improve your listening skills, to listen to others when they are talking to you or maybe you would love to handle life’s daily little stresses a lot more better, in your life or it can be that you would like to have a more balanced approach about your life. as you are making other people around you happy without sacrificing towards your very own needs in life.

  • In this way, by having a great plan to make some headway in these departments, of your life and then soon, as you are working towards improving the things that you are lacking of then you will definitely be on your way to having more respect for yourself. Make a list of areas you’d like to improve. Take note when you make improvements, however small. It’s important to write down your small and big victories.
  • Of course, changing behaviors and the thoughts and feelings associated with those behaviors takes more than a day or two; it takes a big commitment and persistence. But taking the first steps to become a person that you respect more will make you feel more confident about who you are.

#12. | Improving something about yourself, and then Respecting others around you.

Improving yourself or your personality means you are someone that is willing to taking the steps to trying out new things that you never do before and even to open up your mindset towards the new possibilities in your life.

  • While you are working to words, improving yourself, then it can mean taking a very new yoga class, or even volunteering, or by spending a lot more time by knowing a brand new lesson from the older people, that is around you. That you care more about. by learning to see the different, or even multiple perspectives, about any different situations, by reading the news, and striving to learn new things every single day all the time.
  • When you are learning to respect yourself, then, in other to do this then you may have to start with respecting others that is around you, as well and no. not just the people who that actually have more experience in life or already accomplished, something in They life but all of the human beings as well on this earth. who have not caused you harm. Of course, certain people don’t deserve your respect, but you should work to treat people like you want to be treated, whether you’re talking to your boss or the check-out girl at your local grocery store. Here are some basic ways to respect others:
  • Be honest with people.
  • Do not steal from, harm, or insult them.
  • Listen to what they say, consider their opinion, and avoid interrupting them.

#13. | Understanding, when someone is about to disrespect you, and then standing up to people that is disrespecting you by taking steps to stop it.

Someone that have a lot of self-respect in their self does not allow people that is around them to treat them very badly, and also they would rather to not associate themselves with someone who is constantly disrespectful to them every single time. This can even look really obvious, however, there are many times that many people that is around the world that have accept when others Is treating them really badly (in both cases, big and even small ways,) that we have actually believe in the person that do not even know any better, or it can be that we’re not or never willing to let that the insult to words you to go or slide, or even because we’re really down on ourselves lately, by believing that we actually deserve better. Whenever that someone doesn’t give you the full or basic respect, that you deserve to have then you should stand up for yourself and tell the person that is insulting you that you should treat you better.

  • If someone try to continue to consistently disrespect you, in a hatful then you should let him go. The reason is it is because Nobody said to your that it was easy to turn your back on someone who has clearly disrespected you, then if you care so much about them in person a lot. But once you break the bad habit of associating with someone who makes you feel terrible, you’ll feel your self-respect soar.
  • Learn to recognize a manipulative or controlling relationship. It can be hard to see when a person close to us is being disrespectful, especially if they’re subtle and sneaky and it’s been going on for very long period of time.

#14. | Learning how to practice with having no violent communication with others.

Whenever, you are confronting someone about their own disrespectful behaviors, in person then you should try to stick to only just the positive and a productive communication guideline with them:

  • In this case, whatever you do please do not resort to yelling or insulting other people. In this case, this types of actions will only root to the conversation in judgment and are not productive.
  • By even Identifying your own feelings. While you are Being really honest about what you are feeling, and then by taking responsibility for these type of emotions.
  • Clearly state what you need or want from the situation. You might say, “I need to have a better image of myself, and I don’t want to listen to negative comments about myself.”

#15. | Never rely too much on other people that is around for you to feel great about yourself.

They are Many times, others have relied on others when they are dating they partners or even having a friendship,

  • of someone that they really care about in this case, we might sacrifice our own needs and then, try to allow ourselves in person to be controlled by others that around us or who we love because we are really afraid of losing someone that we really cared about very badly. Sometimes You may perceive their own opinions more and you may feel like it does not matter much more than your own. In addition, towards this situation when you are paying much attention to everyone else’s first needs then your own then it is a classic sign of having a very low self-respect towards yourself. what you need to do Instead, you should trust your own opinions more and always put your own needs first all the time. By Learning that you do not always need to depend on someone for they happiness in addition.
  • A good place to start is by figuring out what you can control and what it is that cannot control. For instance, you can’t control other people action however, (you can influence them, but not control them), and you can’t control the weather. But you can control how you react to people even in bad situations, and you can control how you decide to feel.
  • You can also take actions to improve the way you are handling different relationship situations, such as learning to be more assertive, and learning about healthy boundaries, how to enforce them, and how to stick to them. This will help you learn healthy behavior patterns that will encourage people to treat you well and increase your self-respect.

#16.| forgive others if they are being really, mean to you.

If you want to respect yourself more, then you could be having to learn to forgive others for being extremely wronged to you in person. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to be best friends with them, however, it does actually mean that you should mentally forgive others and learn to move forward. In life on the other hand, if you are spending all of your time just to think about all of your grudges and even resentments, then you will never ever be able to think about the situations clearly or to live in the present. So, please do yourself the right favor when you are forgiving others then, simply forgive them and then be sure to move forward.

  • In this way, whenever someone has actually done you unspeakable harm, that you do not even like then, try to work on moving on from the experience that you are having in life in this case, in person. You can’t let yourself wallow in anger and resentment forever.
  • Forgiving others is a gift you give yourself, and an action you do for your own self-healing. It’s okay to be angry for a little while, but if you are angry too long, the anger will interfere with your life and your happiness. Realize that when people treat you badly, it’s because they don’t have people in their lives treating them well, so they could be worse off than you. So, forgive them for their mistakes and transgressions for yourself, and the person who will benefit most is you.

#17. | never ever try to demean yourself, and never ever, do something in your life that other people will see you do something that you’ll regret later down the line.

If you truly want to always respect yourself, then you should stop yourself from always demeaning yourself, especially when you are always in public the reason it is because. #1. it’s one thing to laugh at yourself, and #2. On the other hand, it’s another thing to say things like, “I look so fat today and ugly,” or “Why would anyone want to talk to a stupid person like me anyway? When I feel like I am always failing at something” what I am saying is If you put yourself down, you are encouraging others to do the same.

  • The next time you have a negative thought about yourself, write it down instead of saying it aloud. If you say it aloud, you’ll be more likely to think it’s really true.
  • When you are Trying to focus on doing things that will make you really proud of yourself, in this case do not just think things that will get cheap laughs or short-term attention, In public. in this case, you should Stay away from regretful behavior, that will make you feel bad about yourself such as getting too drunk and acting sloppy in public, or hooking up with someone at a bar just for the attention.
  • Try to maintain a consistent image of yourself. It will be hard for people to respect you as the smartest guy in class if you were dancing around with a lampshade on your head at a party the night before.

#18. | Admitting when you are wrong, about something.

If you want to respect yourself all the time, then you will want to be able to know when you’ve made a very big mistake that you never like, and also If you’ve really messed up, at something that others think you will do better then you should let the people know in a way that shows you that you’re truly sorry at the big mistake your actually did and also that you’ve put enough thought into

  • the situation on the other hand, if you want to avoid doing the same thing over and over again in the future Then, taking full, responsibility, for what you did then, doing your best to making amends for it will help you move past feeling bad about making the mistake, which will help your self-respect, because you will know and be proud of the fact that you did your best even though things didn’t go as perfectly as you would have hoped. Give yourself and the people around you enough respect to be able to admit that you’re only human.
  • If you learn to admit that you’re wrong, people will have much more respect for you and will be able to trust you more.

#19. | Dealing with a very powerful emotion that you are having.

In this way, it is okay to lose your cool from time to time, when you are not in a very good mood however, if you are always losing your cool a lot more too often and over the littlest things, that stress you out then in this case, it will help your self-respect to deal with life’s little stresses more efficiently. In other words, if you are getting stress out lately then, in this case, trying going for a walk to cool down, take deep breaths, and come back to the situation when you are calmer. Dealing with life’s situations with a calm mind rather than when emotions are running high will help you feel more in control and better about the way you handle your daily situations, which in turn will help your self-respect.

  • If you feel yourself getting angry, excuse yourself and go for a short walk, get some fresh air, or call someone who can help you feel grounded. You can also try meditation, writing in a journal, or talking it out with someone.

#20. | Spend time with the people who respect you. And stay humble.

Being around people who make you feel terrible about yourself is guaranteed to lower your self-respect, because you’ll feel bad not only because of what that person says, but deep down, you’ll also be mad at yourself for letting that person hang around you. Find people who make you feel positive, good about yourself and the world, and who actually take the time to listen to you and to help you sort out your feelings.

  • This is especially true for relationships. It will be close to impossible to have true self-respect if you’re dating someone who makes you feel worthless.
  • Some people think that bragging about their accomplishments will make people like them more. Doing this, however, will actually make you look insecure. If you really want people to respect you, practice modesty and humility, letting other people recognize for themselves how awesome you are.

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