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1. | Align your Goals With What you Really Value within yourself.
Reflect on yourself and then, ask yourself one of these Quick questions: for example, like Are my goals authentic? Why do I want to achieve [insert goal]? Do I truly value what I am pursuing?
If our core values are not properly aligned with our goals and daily actions, there will be inner conflict within our self. It is difficult to sustain happiness with a perpetual sense of inner conflict. Our goals and actions need to be aligned with what we uniquely value as individuals. So if they aren’t aligned, we need to make a change today. Either set a new goal that is aligned with something we uniquely value, or stop pursuing something that has little intrinsic meaning.
2. | Visualize The Absolute Best Case Scenario for you.
Naturally visualizing the process about in actuality or in other words. It is natural for us to envision “what could possibly go wrong” in a given situation. In many cases this actually isn’t a bad thing on what it is we are doing also. It allows you to make peace with the “worst case scenario” and plan appropriately. However, it doesn’t get us excited. So if we feel so inclined to prepare for the worst, we should also have the habit of “seeing the best” as well. When we see the best, it gets us excited, and it provides you with a sense of hope, confidence and creativity.
3. | Putting Yourself in a Great Mood and Giving out your Very Best in Everything you Do.
Within your Inner conflicts are often at the heart of unhappiness. And A great way to create your inner conflict is to give a half-hearted effort in what you are pursuing yourself to do. We can’t always control our immediate circumstances. Things happen to us that are outside of our control, but we can control how we react to situations. And also We can control our actions, and we can also control our attitude‒no matter what happens to us in any circumstances. When we live each moment of our life with a sense that we are always giving our best, you will feel at peace. you won’t have regrets, and no matter what happens to us we will hold our heads up high knowing that we did our best. This also makes us happy.
4. | Pushing yourself Towards What that Scares you.
For achieving your fears. to taking action when it makes you more, happier in this case Fear stops on your fulfillment. It also inhibits your happiness. Whenever you are moving towards what that scares you in a big way, and then become brave on whet ever it is that scares us we achieve a powerful personal victory. It is the victory of the self over the self. In this way When we achieve this victory we feel fulfilled, and then we feel more, happier to. Move towards our fear also increases our complexity as individuals, and causes us to learn. Both of these are results that make us feel good. A habit of moving towards fear should be done in small, measurable steps. Are you afraid of public speaking? Don’t sign up for a TED talk quite yet (perhaps that will come later). Start first with a small venue. Expand your comfort zone a small step at a time. Over time (as this becomes a habit) you will be amazed at your growth, and one day when you stand on that TED stage, it will seem surreal, but you only get there one step at a time. One victory over fear at a time on whatever it is you are afraid of.
5. | Be in the Present. And Live For Today.
Never think about the pass in fact, Living, in the past can sometimes be nostalgic for anyone of us especially. when we did things we did not like at all, also (and memorable), but it can also be painful and depressing to some of us in that way. It is so easy to recall past mistakes on where we go wrong and also missteps. It is so easy to dwell on failures and the things that we “should have done.” Living for the future can sometimes be exciting (if we are proficient at visualizing a compelling future), but it can also make us anxious (and scared) when we start to think about all the things we must do to make that future a reality. The solution to the dangers of past and future living is to live completely in the present. The present is all that we have anyway. When we live in the present, we experience flow. We do better work. We eliminate anxiety and we thwart fear.
6. | Learning Something New all the time.
From reading a book to using a smart device on something when learning something. If you believe that learning things you don’t know leads to happiness, then you are right, in fact when, we have an unlimited opportunity for an exciting and fulfilling in life. There are literally limitless opportunities to learn in the universe we all leave in. alternatively You can even learn a new skill or a new language you Don’t know or You can learn strategies and tools that will help you to cultivate your existing talents and abilities. You can expand your knowledge of the world, and other cultures. You can live your entire life, immersed in learning related activities, and still never know it all. The reality is that learning does make us happy. It gives us confidence. And also You don’t need to go back to school to learn (although that can be fulfilling as well), just go to your preferred search engine, type some keywords of things that you’d like to learn and start reading. Build on what you know every day.
7. | Exercise and Eat Healthy Foods to stay more, happier.
The better we eat, the better we’ll feel. The same goes for exercising, The, more we move, the better we’ll feel. This habit is also one that will create immediate results. Sometimes, when we are in a bad mood, or perhaps we’ve had a bad day at work or anything, the solution is a very simple one: get to the gym, go for a walk or run, or get on the bike, or go for a swim. Whatever our preferred method is, the results are the same. We feel better after or whenever we exercise.
8. | Detaching From, The Opinions of Other people about what they think about you.
When having a Relationships with others. you don’t know or love it can bring meaning, purpose and richness to our lives. Sometimes They can also be a significant source of pain and frustration with others on whatever, they feel about you however, if we become fixated on the opinions of others in this way. The sad reality is that not everyone is going to like us back. Sometimes, just by being ourselves, we unintentionally push people away, and if we try to change this (by being someone who we aren’t) we unintentionally push others away (who like our authentic version better). There is only one of us, and that is the person who we need to be 100% of the time‒the real, authentic self‒and if it means that not everyone likes us, so be it. We will be much happier over time if we live as who we really are, and detach from the opinions of others.
9. | Detach From Results. Focus On taking Actions.
This is a difficult one for you. however, if we master it, it will change our lives Forever, We pursue goals because we want a result, and there is nothing wrong with this. All of us do it. However, if we become completely fixated on the result, and fail to achieve it, then we may look at the endeavor as “wasted time.” We also may be so disappointed in not obtaining the result that we won’t see all of the growth that we experienced. Some people feel that the saying “the journey is the destination” is simply a cliche, but if we truly live it, it is far more. When detaching from results‒and focusing only on our actions, on being present at each moment, and on giving the very best that we have‒becomes a habit, we have great possibilities for happiness.
10. | Living Life As A Great Experiment to you.
Whenever we are kids, anything is possible. Remember Life is one giant experiment and we are the great scientists living in life. There are no failures. There is only feedback. We are willing to experiment and try just about anything that interests us. There are no limits. Unfortunately, for many of us, this enthusiasm, and willingness to experiment, fades with age. We get risk-adverse. We start worrying about failure, especially if that failure is visible (and could lead to criticism). We start doubting what is possible. We believe that we are being “practical” and “pragmatic” and we hypnotize ourselves to think that this is the grown-up way to act. However, it often doesn’t make us happy, and we’d be happier if we just retained the curiosity we had as a child. If we can capture the child-like innocence of treating life like a giant experiment, and we are the amateur scientists, then the world will remain a wonderful mystery, and we will constantly feel intrigued and happy.
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