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1. | Having Conversation Hoarder about they self.
In this way The narcissist loves to talk about him or herself, a lot of the times and doesn’t give you a chance to take part in a two-way conversation. You struggle to have your views and feelings heard from them. When you do get a word in, if it’s not in agreement with the narcissist, on what they like to her your comments are likely to be corrected, dismissed, or ignored. For example if I say
“My friend Trevor favorite responses to my views were: ‘but…,’ ‘actually…,’ and ‘there’s more to it than this…’ He always has to feel like he knows better.”
2. | They are a Conversation Interrupter.
While many people have the poor communication habit about something or someone however, interrupting others, just to say something the narcissist interrupts and quickly switches the focus back to they self. He shows little genuine interest in you.
3. | They are the Rule Breaker.
Another thing The narcissist enjoys getting away with is violating the rules and social norms, such as cutting in line, chronic under-tipping (some will overtip to show off), stealing office supplies, breaking multiple appointments, or disobeying traffic laws.
“I take pride in persuading people to give me exceptions to their rules” Anonymous.
4. | Boundary Violator.
They Shows wanton and disregard for other people’s thoughts, they feelings, possessions, and physical space. Oversteps and uses others without consideration or sensitivity. Like Borrows items or money without returning. It Breaks and promises and obligations repeatedly. Shows little remorse and blames the victim for one’s own lack of respect. Like
“It’s your fault that I forgot because you didn’t remind me”
― Anonymous.
5. | False Image and Projections by copying something or someone.
Many narcissists in the world like to do things to impress or show off to others by making themselves look good externally. This “trophy” complex can exhibit itself physically, romantically, sexually, socially, religiously, financially, materially, professionally, academically, or culturally. In these situations, the narcissist uses people, objects, status, and/or accomplishments to represent the self, substituting for the perceived, inadequate “real” self. These grandstanding “merit badges” are often exaggerated. The underlying message of this type of display is: like “I’m better than you!” or “Look at how special I am—I’m worthy of everyone’s love, admiration, and acceptance!” when saying that they will also do things to impress people for example
“I dyed my hair blond and enlarged my breasts to get men’s attention – and to make other women jealous” of me
― Anonymous
“My accomplishments are everything”
― Anonymous executive
They may go as far as never want to be looked upon as poor. Or My fiancé and I each drive a Mercedes. The best man at our upcoming wedding also drives a Mercedes.”
Anonymous
In a big way, these external symbols become pivotal parts of the narcissist’s false identity, replacing the real and injured self.
6. | They want Entitlement.
A Narcissists will often expect preferential treatment from other people. And They expect others to cater for them (often instantly) to their needs, and want without being considerate in return. In their mindset, and the world revolves around them.
7. | They are Charmer or attractive.
A Narcissists can be very Charismatic and persuasive. To others When they’re interested in you (for their own gratification), and they make you feel very special and they make you feel wanted. However, once they lose interest in you (most likely after they’ve gotten what they want, or became bored), they may drop you without a second thought About you A narcissist can be very engaging and sociable, as long as you’re fulfilling what they desires, and giving them all of your attention.
8. | They have the Grandiose Personality type.
They will Think of they oneself as a hero or heroine, a prince or princess, or one of a kind special person. In this way Some narcissists have an exaggerated sense of self-importance, when believing that others cannot live or survive without his or her magnificent contributions. For example they might say
“I’m looking for a man who will treat my daughter and me like princesses”
It is Anonymous singles ad
“Once again I saved the day—without me, they’re nothing”
―it’s Anonymous. That is what an n narcissists will say.
9. | they don’t like Negative Emotions.
So Many narcissists enjoy spreading and arousing negative emotions to gain attention, feel powerful, and keep you insecure and off-balance. They are easily upset at any real or perceived slights or inattentiveness. They may throw a tantrum if you try to disagree with their views, or fail to meet their expectations. They are extremely sensitive to criticism and how they feel about it, and typically respond with heated argument (fight) or cold detachment (flight). On the other hand, narcissists are often quick to judge, criticize, ridicule, and blame you or others. Some narcissists are Emotionally abusive. By making you feel inferior, they and they boost their fragile ego, and feel better about themselves.
“Some people try to be tall by cutting off the heads of others”
10. | they Manipulation and Using Others as an Extension of Self.
They like Making decisions for others to suit one’s own needs. The narcissist may use his or her romantic partner, child, friend, or colleague to meet unreasonable self-serving needs, fulfill unrealized dreams, or cover up self-perceived inadequacies and flaws.
They will even say to you for example.
“If my son doesn’t grow up to be a professional baseball player, I’ll disown him”
― Anonymous father will say
“Aren’t you beautiful? Aren’t you beautiful? You’re going to be just as pretty as mommy”
― Anonymous mother
Another way narcissists may manipulate you is through guilt, such as proclaiming, “I’ve given you so much, and you’re so ungrateful,” or, “I’m a victim—you must help me or you’re not a good person.” They hijack your emotions, and beguile you to make unreasonable sacrifices.
If you find yourself in a relationship with a difficult narcissist, there are many strategies and skills you can utilize to help restore health, balance, and respect.
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