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1. | Define what is Love.
Ok Before anything else, it is important to base your search for more amazing answers on a generally agreed-upon definition for the word like or love. In this way Love may be casually described as a very strong affection for something or someone, in that case although answers will vary from person to person. Chances are you have your own definition of love. Try to put your own definition into words.
Because love is something you feel, looking to art and sone music lets you feel someone else’s interpretation directly. The Beatles are a great go-to in this regard, but there are great songs about love from virtually every era and style of music.
Writers and philosophers have given many different interpretations of love. You may want to seek out their opinions if you’re having any doubt with your own definition.
2. | Consider understanding the different types of love.
Love covers a wide variety of positive feelings for an all-encompassing range of human and relationships. We Think of all of the different types and what it means of connections you can foster with people. Most connections have the potential for a certain kind of love. A love you have for your parents or your amazing children or kids is distinct from the feelings you would have towards a lover you love. It is important to the first consider these different types of love, and how they might ideally feel. While it could be categorized endlessly, Ancient Greek philosophers categorized love into four general categories:
Eros refers to a romantic love. This is arguably the first type of love people think of when the term love is brought up scenarios.
Storge refers to a love of family and kinship.
Philia is a friendly love, also known as “Platonic love.”
Agape was the Greeks’ term for a “divine love”, relating to spiritual matters.
Love can also be used to describe affection for an object it can be any object or a concept. For instance, for example someone may love their van, or their country.
3. | Spend quality time and Perform acts of service for your loved one.
Give the person you love your full, undivided attention when he or she talks to you and when you’re together. Try to eliminate any distractions coming between you and your loved one. Try to Avoid using your smart phone or electronics device and try to make your loved one feel special.
Practice active listening when your loved one is talking by maintaining eye contact and processing what they’re saying. Don’t talk over or interrupt them.
Have a board game night or go on a date night to a place you’ve never been before so you can have fun.
Sometimes, doing chores or helping out around the house with out your love one knowing or helping your love one with they chores will show someone that you care and love them. Even if it’s out of your way, take some time to do the thing that your loved one hates doing all the time. They’ll be sure to appreciate it.
For example, if your loved one is very busy and don’t have time to wash the dishes, consider doing for him or her to ease their workload.
4. | Make a habit of gift-giving to your loved one.
Giving your loved one a Gift are a great thing if you want to express your love to someone with something they like. While words go a long way, a gift is a concrete sign of your affection. Gifts can be as small or as big as you want for your love one. The important thing is that the gift was given with sincere feelings behind it. The types of gifts you might give depends on the type of love you’re expressing:
Flowers are a very common gift to give to a romantic lover.
Less symbolic gifts, like concert tickets, may be given to friends or family.
Small thoughtful gifts, like homemade cards or picked flowers, can mean a lot to anyone.
5. | Always Be realistic about love.
In life When it all comes down to it, love is idealistic by nature. That doesn’t always mean it can’t be a part of real life, but you do need to be realistic about what you define as love with someone you love. Love can feel magical, but it’s by no means fairytale-like or perfect. You can love someone and still fight with them or dislike things about them. At the end of the day, however, loving someone means the positives outweigh their negative traits, and you would go out of your way to help them out at no benefit to yourself. It is easy to idealize the notion of love, but there is real-life potential for it in virtually for all of us.
Being realistic as a human been should not be confused with being jaded or cynical. Pessimism is another kind of bias. Just because it doesn’t showcase things in a rose-tinted light doesn’t mean it’s presenting things as accurately as it should. Take the good along with the bad.
6. | Ask yourself if you ever love someone before.
From questioning who you love to understand who you love you need to question your self and ask your self How can you really know if you have loved before? Because love is intangible by its very nature, there is no one way of knowing for sure. Instead, take your personal definition of love and see if it matches any relationship (romantic or otherwise) you have been in. It may also help to categorize any loves you may have, be they platonic, romantic, familial or otherwise. If you know within reasonable doubt that you have indeed loved before, the act of loving someone should become more straightforward in that way for you.
However, If you don’t think you have ever loved before, it is possible your definition of love is too idealistic and strict.
If you are otherwise sure you have not loved before, the process of learning to love will entail keeping your attention focused on detecting new feelings you have not felt before, or at least a stronger degree of positive emotion than you’re used to.
7. | Feel love as a romantic addiction.
You have probably heard the metaphor comparing love to a drug, but as far as brain chemistry goes, that is somewhat true. It’s likr When you love someone, you become addicted to their presence. When you always around them If you focus on all of the good things about someone, you will become increasingly excited to see them again or right now.
Love as an addiction should manifest itself as missing that person terribly while you’re apart.
Don’t be around a person in a possessive, unhealthy way.
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